I know of only three women who were mistresses to married men.
One got pregnant and ended up with the man leaving his wife for her. (the man is related to me by his first marriage)
The second decided on a married man after her husband died and she wanted a stable, and emotionally safe way to meet her physical needs. It lasted a good 3-4 years until she was ready to begin thinking about dating once more.
Last was a 19 year old who wanted to learn sex from someone who actually knew what he was doing. Some one who could not get her pregnant and who would last long enough to really satisfy her. Someone who could be a teacher and a friend. They continued the affair the better part of a year.
Those are the only three I personally know of and the last two seem very happy with they way things worked out - but then again they had no desire for anything more than sex.
The first doesn't seem so happy now that she actually has him. Irony right?What are the advantages of having an affair with a married man?
theres no advantage for the wife if she finds out so whats the point in even going there unless its just a game ur playing 2 c if can take the man of the wife then if thats the case and u do get the guy then i hope he does 2 u what uve done to the poor wife c how u like it trace
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A friend of mine had an affair with a married man for 15 years. She was quite happy about the situation because all she wanted was sex once a week (which she got), someone she could call when her washing machine etc broke down (which she got), occasional nights out (which she got) and a bit of cash from him now and again (which she got). She didn't want anything more and so from her point of view a married man (who wouldn't want more) was idea for her.
But I suppose most mistresses gain very little in general - apart from a cheating partner, loneliness and empty promises .
Advantages inclued:
Being alone on holiday as he will be with his family.
If he has kids, greatly disrupting their lives.
If you have kids, teaching them they are not worth having their own relationship.
Destroying his wife.
Being seen as a homewrecking whore.
Getting pregnant and the married man not being their to support you.
The married man having no respect for you as you will be showing him that you have none for yourself
I'm sure there are many more ';advantages';
A quick bonk when he needs it. Married men who have mistresses only use the mistress's and do so because there is sex problems at home. They will tell you that eventually he wi leave the wife and come to you but it is not true and for the very few that might leave the wife just remember he messed about with you when he was married he will mess about with someone else when he is with you.
none, it makes me angry some women would have a affair with a married man! im 21 and very much single haha and if this happend to me id find the women and teach her a lesson, also the husband would be out of the window. im sure the mistress wouldnt like some whore to come along and sleep with her husband if she had one. i dont really care what the mistress would gain, go find your own man, the only word for these ' mistress's' is bitchs
Nothing. They just have not figured it out yet. It could be the money but then that makes them a prostitute IMO, not a mistress, and not that one is above the lowness of the other. Then again, they don't lose much either if you think about it. They certainly don't lose any of their self respect, because they never had any to begin with. I think there are women that simply don't want a guy unless he is already taken because they need therapy.
LOL @ fifi!!!
As a Mistress she is there to service him sexually and then send him off to his family and she gets her alone time, goes and takes a nice bubble bath, has a glass of wine, walks around nakid cuz well she's alone and probably always will be.....
I say they gain nothing..and in the process lose their pride
Some mistresses get expensive gifts from their married men and they don't have to live with them and put up with them. They give them back to their wife's and go out and find other married men. There is most times good sex and that is something that most married men don't get from their wife's.
The mistress gets taken out,presents sex and no complications.
What she does not get is laundry,cooking,cleaning and drudgery.
Who would you rather be?
I knew i would get a lot of thumbs down-but i am writing this from the experience of a wife that has been cheated on-she got the champagne I got the mundane!
LMAO! These answers futher lets me know why some wives don't have a clue when their husbands do choose a mistress! Some people are living in a fog.
Wives please tell the truth about your lonely holidays and nights spent alone because of his time away with mistress. Oh, you thought that was a business trip, Right?
Well, she knows that she's on deck. If the wife should get hit by a bus or something, she's there.
Plus, she gets a stable guy (usually) without actually having to have him around the house 24-7, passing gas and snoring.
hot sex,no commitments,any time u can stop it,no heart breaking, no tears,in common general cases.
but if he is rich......all the above plus,expensive gifts,nice hotel stays,travel and can get cash also.
The mistress gets some of the sex, but a lot of lies, sneaking around, and hiding. She's also the one who gets branded as a home wrecker. I don't think she gains anything.
if she is happy with only seeing him when he can get away, then it's for her, but the problem is she can get emotionally attached, and end up getting very hurt
the mistress gains nothing! there are no advantages so if you are thinking about it then dont! stay clear of married men even if they are unhappy with their marriage they are nothing but trouble.
Really nothing. She may get some fun times but we all know that the guy will never leave his wife and if he does then the relationship will never work out. She may gain a child and some child support.
She only gains unattached sex - nothing else. Problem with that is that often the mistress ends up wanting more, and he can't/won't give anymore.
Well if that mistress happens to be married too and both want to stay in their marriages, then I would think that a lot of people could stay happy.
Its sorta like grandparents and their grandkids.. You can love and spoil the hell out of them but at the end of the day.. you can just send their butts back home when you had enough!
They get to rid themselves of that pesky self-respect they've been burdened with.
They get a nice parting gift of knowing they are tramps with the morals of a common alley cat.
Empty promises and loneliness.
NOTHING.
ummm there are no advantages to affairs!
advantages are that you have a man but dont have to cook or clean for him
the mistress gains a fantasy dream
The Mistress gets ';no strings attached'; sex.
Great sex from an experienced man.
Pearls.If she knows how to give him really good head.
Sex and money! She has freedom of her own. No interference from her lover. Doesnt have to take care of him.
Nothing. A little bit of meaningless sex.
Nothing that I can think of lol.
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