Why would a married man call a single woman everyday after work to speak with her?

Why doesn't he talk to his wife instead?Why would a married man call a single woman everyday after work to speak with her?
he is looking for an affair.Why would a married man call a single woman everyday after work to speak with her?
It's quite obvious he has an interest in you and it's probably more than for a phone conversation. Why talk to his wife, he sleeps with her, he wants


something fresh and new, and you are playing along by taking his calls.


If you were truly annoyed, you would have ended it on the first or second call. So my opinion is he thinks your a diddling prospect. And you my dear probably wouldn't object to a shot under the tail.





Good Luck





God Bless
He wants a mistress ...his bit of fun on the side and he thinks you are cheap enough to give in with a bit of attention!


He must have NO respect for you and thinks he can get away without his wife finding out!





It all comes out in the end...may take longer some times but it always comes out so please think if you want to be labelled a MISTRESS!!





If you have any self respect Tell him to stop harassing you!
Wishbone,


How long has this been going on?


I got from what you wrote, that they work together and she is his teaching assistant. How old is he, and how old is she?





No I wouldn't consider this normal behavior, even as a TA I can't think of anything that would require daily calls.


The appearance and the questions it raises is exactly why you don't do that.


Are we talking the fact that 90% of all cheating that goes on in marriages happens with co workers? is this a midlife crises thing that this guy is questioning if he is still attractive.


has she been leading him astray?





How are thing between you, have you noticed any other changes with him?


How have you been feeling about you relatioship?


See, it's these kind of questions that come up that you want to avoid, so you don't chat up the ladies at work.


A lttile harmless flirting with the girl at the coffe shop is one thing but this is way over the top.





Now the BIG question, what are you prepared to do about it?


the more it is aloud to happen, the more he will think your ok about it, if a bit uncomfortable.


So what are you prepared to do about it?





listen he needs to own this, he is calling her, so what ever silly motivation she has is not entirely relevent, if he stops it ends, we hope.





Now Trust? how much do you trust him now?


and even if this stops, will you ever question what he may be up to?





I still come back to what is going on at home, if you can't say that anything has really change at home, then we have to ask what has changed for him? if he hasn't done this before, then what has changed? did this TA start showing an inapropriate interest in him?





How far has this gone? what don't we know about this situation?





If you need for this too stop, then you have to take strong measures, you need to explaint to him very specifically what you are preapred to do if it does not stop immediately. and actualy do it.


for greater affect leave the phone directory open to divorce lawyers. That should get his attention, and put to rest any question he might have as to your resolve.





so think about it wishbone,.





something else you might consider, if the TA starts getting uncomfortable she make a complaint to managment, not a good thing really.





I wish you both every succes as you deal with this/





Best wishes.
he is looking for something besides his wife. His wife should leave him and the women he's calling should ignore him because he'll just do the same thing to her.
obviously she wants to talk to him and probably wants him... otherwise SHE'D PUT THE PHONE DOWN!!!





[EDIT - she MUST be picking it up, for him to ';enjoy talking to her';... if she DIDN'T pick up, he'd not bother... so, as i say, SHE WANTS HIM AND HE KNOWS IT!!!]





[EDIT2 - you need to stop changing your mind... either she doesn't pick up or she does... and STILL, SHE WANTS HIM!!! you are confused... just have sex with him, you know you want to!!!]





[EDIT3 - if she SOOOO wants him out of her life, perhaps she should see about changing her number and NOT giving it to him in the future - and she only gave it to him cos she wanted him... :D and is probably a homewrecker!!!]
For sure that married man probably having a secret affair with that single woman. He enjoys her company and share good thoughts together. while he maybe find his wife boring or so.
I don't know. Why does she let it continue? Why does this woman not pick up the phone and tell him to stop calling? Takes two to tango.
There is no GOOD reason for a married man to do this.








If she doesn't pick up the phone how can he be having these nice little chats with her?
Maybe he's interested in her...
Pretty simple, he wants to bang her, and hates his marriage.
sounds like he's interested in the lady...
he wants to be with her .. for somthing like sex